There are many ways to push and to pull. Firstly, you need a connection. Most obviously: If you have a grip -- usually with a hand -- on your partner or your partner has a grip on you (or both have a grip on each other) you can use the connection to pull or push. Note that if your partner has the grip they may elect to release, which is why in jiu-jitsu when grabbed, we often grab back (so that they can't get away). In principle it is possible to grip with your toes or your teeth, but I will disregard those possibilities for now. Use of the hands When gripping, especially when gripping clothing, it is good practice to grip tightly with smallest two fingers (the ring finger and the pinkie), and quite gently with the thumb and the remaining fingers. This prevents over-tensing, increases sensitivity to your partner's movements, and over time strengthens the smaller fingers. This is also the recommended way to grip a sword. Usually -- there are exceptions -- the shoulders shou...
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